I have written a few times of me being absent, not being around. It is hard to write about kink when you are not doing any of it! It also makes it noticeably more missed. I have been a little stir crazy lately. Not enough kink. Life just keeps happening. Talk of soon, soon, yes soon. I am not a patient person! Dammit! We have been talking a bit lately with a few of the people Tutivillus did the podcasts for Dungeonplace with. Talking of doing some more, and getting back into a good mix of the kink community events. The past three or four parties and events we were planning on attending have been cancelled at the last minute. One as we were getting ready to leave. Frustrating when you are missing that part of life. Necessary as life and health does come first. Recently a few talks on the fetlife groups prompted a topic of very basic proportions. This was the catalyst to get a date and a plan going. Fitting that on Friday the 13th- a new Dungeonplace podcast was recorded! A few party scenes were also discussed for an upcoming party, and yes, barring any new undergoing the knife requirements- the kink is back in my life! In talking about what we should do in one scene, what someone wanted someone else to do to them in another scene, I realized something. I have not been a bottom in over six months. I have been a top in a few here and there, but I haven’t been a bottom. Time to decide what I want to have done to me. Pondering. I have a few ideas…. now onto deciding what one is the winner! Wonder which one will win! I have an idea which will be first choice……